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It does not matter what the percentages are, only how it is between you and your W. Does it really matter how many women 35-45 or whatever consider themselves HD?
I'm HD. In fact, I would consider all of my close women friends HD as well. And you may recall my post on my friend/neighbor right next door to me who comes home for "lunch" with her H. They have sex at least once a day she claims.
There are plenty of HD women out there, well over age 35 in fact. There are also plenty of women who are LD. Let's not make generalizations and comments about who are the "freaks" etc. No one is a freak. There is a spectrum of sexual desire in women just as there are in men. Stereotyping people, your W especially, will get you no where fast.
Was glad to see you shared so much in the last post though. Your statment that you "both have said" you will stay together until the kids leave home speaks volumes. You both seem emotionally checked out of this R and are just in complaint mode at this point. No?