That is the most information on your R you have ever given us. If you rarely talk about your R w/your W (who let me remind you you are inthe R with) you won't get anywhere fast.
If you go round and round talking about HD/LD and don't speak bluntly or talk about your "FEELINGS" and how you are affected...you will get nowhere.
HD/LD as Chrissy and others have mentioned is relative CeMar. I may not be HD to anyone other than my H. I probably wouldn't be HD to you (am I still a freak of nature?). Yes, I may have a decent SD right now....but I cannot guarantee it will stay that way as I get older.
You do realize don't you that Chrissy didn't tell you how many women out of those 400 she actually spoke about this with to base her 95% on don't you? So you are assuming that only 20 out of 400 women have a decent SD. I'm guessing that Chrissy probably didn't talk to all 400 women...so her basis for the percentage comes from a much much smaller sampling.
I, for one, as I've mentioned before have my closests friends (3 in fact...who have the same HD SD I have, at least we have a similar SD...which for us means we would like to have sex at least once per week, possibly more ok...now that's just us). So for for me, out of the women I would talk to about this....100% of us are HD in comparison to our H's.
Your percentages are skewed, yet you easily accept them.
I cannot tell you how offended I was by your last post...you just reached a new low for me. I really hope you were joking....GRRRRRRRRRRR!