Wow. If you are right, that women over the age of 35 for the most part don't want sex, then life truely sucks. I was wondering if the HD women on here were common or if they were freaks of nature. How are men supposed to be happy in life when 95% of the possible mates out there have little interest in sex?
This is one reason I don't get divorced, are there really any HD women out there.
Do I talk to my wife about the relationship, rarely. I have tried explaining what my needs are and she is CLUELESS about HD, she thinks it is just about sex. I have not found the magical words that would help her to understand.
Is she happy with the relationship, no. She is not "IN LOVE" with me, and I am not "In LOVE" with her. When two people don't meet each others needs, it is impossible to be "In Love".
As for the future, we both have said that it is unlikely we will stay together after the kids leave home. What would be the point? Without sex and affection, you can only be roomates. That is what I don't understand about the LD perspective on marriage, your just roomates and how would that be considered a successful marriage.