I feel you need reminding that there really are different ligitimate changes that happen in womans body that can absolutely affect her SD, and it is NOT a reflection on your or her feelings for you. So it's not always that a woman does/doesn't keep things going in SPITE of her H. Sometimes it's just simply our bodies and whether or not they are cooperating with what we want too.
Sometimes I do think men forget that sometimes we women have a hormonal Russian Roulette playing havoc with our bodies...which truly does affect emotions, sensitivity to physical touch, sex drive etc.....on a monthly basis, and that's not even mentioning the the Ping-Pong match that happens to us during Menopause.
CeMar, I hate to be base here (ok no I don't)...but you've mentioned a few times your W has stated "it's not fair that women change so much and men don't." This could be exactly what she's talking about...but you are viewing change differently than she is.
Ok, let's say no, you haven't changed...I can buy that. But the odds are simply not with your W that everything within her, emotions, sex drive etc will stay the same....not when a woman's body is in a constant state of flux.
