My wife does not necessarily have problems with aging, but she does not like changing. Over the years, she has said many times that she is changing, and usually not for the better. She has gained weight, has a thyroid condition, sagging, a tummy, and big changes to her desire(hormones). She tells me it is not fair that women change so much and men don't. I have not really changed much since we got married, and I think this bothers her. I have the same sex drive as 20 years ago, and obviously she does not.
Part of the problem I have as well with her is that many of her girlfriends are also like her, they too have little interest in sex. So she feels NORMAL among her peers. There is such a disparity among women when it comes to sex drives. There are obviously many HD women on these boards that have high sex drives IN SPITE of there husbands. How the heck do they keep it going?
