Maybe the question we should ask Cemar (and others) is how attractive are you to your spouse ?

I might be gorgeous, but if my H doesn't find me attractive because I have no sense of humor or I'm a ditzy blonde and he's now into brainy brunettes, what good are looks?

So, how attractive are you to the Mrs? When was the last time you made her laugh? My H might swear that he loves me more than anything in the world, but he can't even be NICE to me. I'll take an average looking guy with a bit of a beer belly if he can make me laugh over 6'2", blue eyed blonde with a bad attitude any day. Yes, and confidence is one of the most attractive traits anyone can have, dontcha think?

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