GGB- Glad to see men find confidence and happiness as, if not more, attractive than physical appearance. Back in the day, I worked with this guy who was a little short, overweight, etc but oozed confidence. I was VERY attracted to him. But like you, I'm still a sucker for a pretty face. Well, arms are really my weakness but I digress. The age factor is also important. I think it was Lil? who mentioned dating someone 63 when she was 35. I couldn't imagine that. I also couldn't imagine dating someone 21 right now either. I think a 10 year span is my limit. But, to each his own.