lou there are defintely person differences not just gender. There is no 1 size fits all. You have to deal with they person in the sitch not the sitch. Hence the very reason we are all waiting for CeMar to Pipe up about himself. and you ladies are cluttering up his thread again. Things seem to be going well in GEL land, I liked that you laughed at the sitch instead of retailiating about something so insignificant as counter tops. getting honesty from your spouse is so crucial, how can you make plans, make changes,deal with anything if they arent honest? Lil that guy was a well trained WUSS. CLASS A. who was he I want to smack the wuss out of him.
Jen you are a fireball, I dont intend double meanings except when I do... But the things you ladies get in a lather about are just me typing faster then I think. Wow. either I am a REALLY fast typer or really DUMB. This is the real me. let me try to rephrase it. You cant try to be confidant, I could tell a guy what to say to meet a girl but if he walks up, eyes darting about, hands shaking, shoulders slumped, it doesnt matter what he says he is dead. Now the guy GEL described as oozing confidance could walk up to almost any female and she is going to be intrigued without him saying a word.
I dont try to appeal. I know that women are attracted to the qualities that are opposite of theirs, which means I just have to be me. A man. Can men kill the attraction? yeah we do all the time. By acting like a woman, too nice, or acting with negative traits like anger, resentment, jealousy, overbearing. Still men with these traits will attract more women then the nice one. You guys got it easy. All you have to do is stand there and wiggle your jiggly parts.
Im kidding. read my sig. Oh and Jen. If I hurt your feelings I am so very very sorry. Will you please forgive me? I cant imagine going on with you angry at me. Its tearing me up inside. Please? First tarzan, now spiderman? I dont want to know what you got tingling, TMI.
chrissy
If you consider as a male you are better equiped to give a another person female insight and perspectives then those who are female I think that a little illogical but okay
exactly right It is illogical. Honestly you are one of the rare few women that is able to verbalize exactly what makes her attracted to her M. You also never come yelling and hollering, just with mild amusement.
I know jen wants to know where I get this from but not right now its not important to CeMars thread. The ladies will have to whip out their Preperation H to deal with the inflamation, or ignore me. I havent seen chocolate eyes, or HD or some of the other guys around. Why not?
Did any of you ladies find it strange that CeMar and WB both responded the same way to my question on attraction. Have you thought of asking your H's the same to see what they say. I fear for your disappointment though.
the question was-- Do you think you are attractive. So I know I am valid in trying to get the guys to express themselves in a way that women will like, rather then how they currently are.
