You definitely gotta know...I'm not the type of a woman who is going to ask a loaded question like "does my butt look fat in this?"....my point to my H was more of I need to know that should I ask you a question, any question, I can rely on your honestly. Why? Because he's been conditioned to say what he thinks I want to hear.
That's more my point in using that as an illustration. For us our honesty is really improving, and it's one of the things improving our R. He's becoming more secure with the fact that I'm not going to twist things conviently to suit my needs...or to lash out at him.
