Quote: Maybe you will stop filtering your H's so much when he says something like - Where did you get those pants.
BTDT
Re GEL
Quote: I will agree...that does sometimes happen, just as men sometimes twist ours. It's part of the gender differences....we hear/communicate differently.
How about people differences and gender differences?
RE GEL
Quote: I am a woman who truly does want honesty. If I ask my H if my butt looks big in these pants....he darned well better tell me if it does.
I want honesty too and think it makes the R more meaningful.
My danger flag goes up when I hear this. Maybe because it has not usually worked in the past.
Your situation may be different and I say that is good.
