Thanks for the compliment, I do appreciate that. My point seems to be getting lost, or perhaps I'm simply not making it clearly.
When I look at myself in the mirror I see all my flaws, I accept them etc...just like you do, to some I'd be considered "eye candy" to some I'd probably be considered ok...what I'm talking about doesn't necessarily concern outer appearances.
The response of "yes I'm an attractive person" can encompass what you look like on the outside certainly, but it includes how you view yourself on the inside as well. See, when I say "yes, I'm an attractive woman"...I'm talking about what's inside as well as outside. I do confidently feel what I have to offer someone is all-in-all attractive. I truly feel someone is lucky to have me.
Is that conceited...perhaps in some ways, but it's more of a knowledge I have about myself. I am a giving, loving, caring person....who coincidentally enough comes in a fairly good looking package as well LOL.
That's more the confidence I'm talking about and I can speak from experience....men are attracted to that same type of confidence, just like women are. I think somehow my response was taken to mean that CeMar isn't confident with his "Looks"...that's not what I meant. I think it's his inner self-confidence he's not so sure about.
