Zbube,

I wasn't being hard on CeMar, truly I wasn't; not this time anyway. His statement simply didn't come across to me as someone who has confidence...it came across more to me as a hesitant statement.

Kind of like...."I'm decent, I think." See what I mean...not even like "yeah...I'm decent! any woman would be lucky to have me." Yes, I'm reading into what he said, I admit that...but that's to give you a general impression of how his statement came across to me.

He's asked several times what he could work on within himself that might make an impression on his W....that's why I gave my take on how his statement came across. Women do seem to find a certain amount of self-confidence appealing & attractive...I'm just suggesting that maybe, just maybe this is something he could work on.

GEL


Well behaved women rarely ever make history!