CeMar, From what you have said, I think your W's desire is GONE and it's not coming back. I think you should get a divorce. Find someone whose desire level matches yours. Set this woman free from your constantly wanting something from her that she is not able/willing to give. You're not doing her any favors by staying in her life. Let HER find someone who can appreciate her for who she is. From what you've said, you have NO reason to believe that she will ever change. This marriage has run its course, and it's time to move on. Period. My 2 cents.
