Blackfoot...

This statement stopped me in my tracks...(Personally when I am having sex regularly I perfer to not give her a climax every time. They dont need the frequency like we do and it keeps the woman unsatisfied and amped up and eager for the next encounter. ).....Says who?!! It doesn't work that way for ANY women I know.

THAT particular comment sounds soooo very cruel to me, it is manipulative and it is selfish....and some men wonder why a woman would choose to not have sex with them? YIKES!

Blackfoot...did you do this to your W?

I can think back to my LD days on this....if I were left unsatisfied...it wouldn't amp me up, I'd be left thinking "this is what this is about, no thanks". Today, as the HD spouse...if I were left unsatisfied....I'd feel slighted, let down, and not very happy about the encounter, and if I were to find out my partner was doing it purposefully...pissed off!!!

ML is supposed to be a mutual give & take. Blackfoot...you sound like such an intelligent person, I find it hard to believe THAT cruel statement came out of you. I read this post the day it was posted...almost posted my response then but didn't. But it has stuck in my brain.

Man...that's cold and it's very, very selfish.

GEL


Well behaved women rarely ever make history!