Personally when I am having sex regularly I perfer to not give her a climax every time. They dont need the frequency like we do and it keeps the woman unsatisfied and amped up and eager for the next encounter.
I had to stop here and laugh not that I agree or disagree But I just invisioned the neck hair that is gonna stand up on the necks of the HD woman on this BB. Though as a LD I would find no real drive to continue to have sex with a person that left me feeling high and dry often. (That is in part issue for my LDness in the first place). I think this concept would backfire relating to me. But I am guessing and guessing being a key word is that this is not a route of action you take frequently. How would a man continue to look masculine and manly to a female if they did not appear to be able to finish the deed on a regular basis. And if your mate knows you are not looking to please them how would your love making not take on a egotistical and selfish appearance that would open the door for resentment?
You say 10-15 times a year..... that is not going to keep her motor running. If women dont keep it active it gets rusty and dusty down there.
I agree with this statement completely.
It causes me to resent her AND to disrespect myself Tough love buddy...only your perception of your self can cause you to direspect yourself.
Again I so agree with this. I feel self-respect,self-worth, self-esteem all rely on ones self. To many people let others have control of what they base these things on.
As for CeMar minus dropping in and sharing a little of his built up frustration he is pretty elusive. Seldom does he answer direct questions or share much in line with personal insight other then how much he not only wants sex but how badly he craves his wife to desire him sexually. I have found post were he implies that he has read the book 5LL. Finances inhibit him from seeking C. And his primary reason to remain married is his responsibility to his children. Thats all the morsels he has really thrown us as to his thinking other then about sex.
Hope all are having a lovely day. I think the reading on this post is about to become interesting. Lol