Quote: Personally when I am having sex regularly I perfer to not give her a climax every time. They dont need the frequency like we do and it keeps the woman unsatisfied and amped up and eager for the next encounter.
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You've got to be kidding, blackie.
I'm telling you right now this wouldn't fly in my home. You'd either reciprocate or the R would end. If your wife was okay with that, then I suppose it was your choice to make. I'm curious--what if she had done that to you? How would you have reacted?
I think the better attitude is to let HER decide, since it's her body. Who are you to decide whether her precise blend of hormonal cocktail and feelings/emotions du jour require one or not?
That rubbed me the wrong way. (pun intended, lol)
I can tell you that, hormonally, my H and I are quite normal. I do not have azzloads of body hair and a deep voice. LOL My H is a manly kind of guy..hairy, strong, lean, etc. And yet he would NEVER dictate when I did or did not get to orgasm. If he even tried that bullshiit, I would take care of myself right then and there while he was busy recuperating from the pleasures he received from MY body.
I understand that you are reconstructing your masculine strength and I applaud you for that. But I wanted to forewarn you away from crazy attitudes, lest you have trouble in future R's.
