Very interesting perspective from the LD womans point of view. Did my wife like "dancing" in the beginning, I really think so, we "danced" everyday for about the first 4 years. THen babies came and her body quit on her, and she does not care if she ever "dances" again.
My wife to needs the emotional connection first. But no matter what I can do, she still does not desire before arrousal. I have to provide ALL the desire, and it is not possible for a relationship to succeed in that case.
As for her love language, all I know is it is NOT physical touch. Do I appreciate the things she does for me? Yes, but the problem is that everything that she does for me is NOT what I want. I would trade EVERYTHING about her if she could become my lover again.
The problem with love langauges is that the only language you should be speaking is the one that the spouse wants to hear. THe problem is she can not speak mine.
