Quote: he always asks me "why do you love me" "what good reason do you have to love me?" How am I suppose to answer these questions?
Tell him you don't know why, but you're willing to give him the time he needs to show you the right answer.
Also, if he's asking questions like that in respone to your ILY's, I think it's too much pressure from you and he is waffling about how to handle it. Try actions instead of words for a while, see how he responds.
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