My H and I had a blow out over the weekend. I told him that I was going to investigate his past, he became furious and told me that I've turned into a b****, and that he would put a restraining order on me. He also said he was glad he had the A because maybe it was suppose to happen so he could see the mean, vindictive person I really am. I guess we made up, we went to church together yesterday and had lunch together but his words really hurt. When I went over to our marital home to meet him there for church, he had changed the locks. I didn't react much to it, but I must say it really makes me mad. After all it is MY house. I bought it! Of course, I probably deserve it because I've beaten him down pretty bad and he has taken it thus far but he's had enough. I guess this was the wake up call that I needed. I've not acted much like a victim of infidelity, I've acted mean, hateful, and threatened him with all kinds of things like blowing the whistle on him at work, etc. Now I feel as though it's all my fault for his infidelity. Is any of this normal?
