Hi Gwyn--I am totally wishing you good luck. Remember, though, it isn't all about luck. You will have to do some hard work and hope he follows suit. In the DR book Michelle says love is a decision you make, and it sounds like you have made the decision to love your H and put in the effort--sounds like you may be bordering on forgiveness too. It does hurt alot when the one we love betrays us, but we can forgive if we want to. Your H realizes the mistake he made and seems he wants to make it up to you. Take it slow--healing is sometimes a long, slow process. Keep coming here and letting us know how you are doing--wishing you the best!