Hu Gwyn - Welcome to Piecing, and yes, this was for me at least, the most difficult journey of my life.
Quote: I cannot get past his A no matter what I try.
Trust me, if being with H is important enough, you will get past the A. Question is, do you want to be with H enough? Only you can answer that. But just remember that no matter how painful it seems now, in a few months the intensity of the pain will recede.
Have you read DR or DB? The first thing to get to grips with is that dbing takes time, period. It may take years to fix the issues.
What do you do when you cannot stand being with each other - do you take a break? How much time do you spend together?
