Long story, short version: I am 5 months into recovery of my H's affair. His A lasted 1 1/2 years (married only 3 years) which equates to one half of our married life.
When do you know that it's no use. I cannot get past his A no matter what I try. My H thinks that it is no use and that I will never get over his A so he thinks we should go our separate ways. I'm beginning to think that he may be right. When do you know if you should just leave the marriage? Right now, we cannot even be around each other. We don't like each other's company and it isn't getting any better. Are we just hanging on for no reasons?
