BF... Reading a biography of John von Neumann is a good place to start ( Globule, you will like this too---he is Hungarian). And while it's fun to distract, I'd like to get back to my original point, and that is, your W has given you an opening and it's up to you what do with it...not to win, but because your heart dictates it. And that's the soul searching you may still have to do. Now, in no way do I condone what your W has done, but who among us is without sin? And weren't the three of you were complicit in setting the conditions for the affair to occur? Love is not an easy thing to come by...just some thoughts before you drop the rope completely.
