I don't think all feelings result from stressors or need to be remedied.

agreed Globule. I was talking about the negative ones.

My error, my weakness is over controlling them and crushing or ignoring all negative ones. I want to say I dont ever feel jealousy, but the reality is when it does happen I stamp it out and characterize it as being weak and insecure on my own part. I am too extreme in this.

I didnt heed my own advice about listening to it and doing something about it. Cobra was right about needing to move towards the middle.