Cobra,

I've visited that website in the past it has some great information on it.

I want to point out though that EVERYONE has narcissistic tendancies...but that doesn't mean we are all narcissists. It's to what degree do you have these tendancies, and how many of the tendancies do you have that make you a narcissist.

Our first C is the one that brought this to my attention. So in order to better understand I researched it, came across SV's website and others, and learned quite a bit about this....I also posted quite a bit about it when I first joined this BB eons ago.

I wanted to point that out mainly because there could be people reading this thread (who are new here or don't necessarily particpate) who might read that website and see a couple of things their SO does that would be considered a narcissistic tendancy...and then run off the deep end thinking they're dealing with a full-blown narcissist, which could really complicate their situation.

Sorry BF, I know you wanted to get off this topic...I apologize for the brief hi-jack...just wanted to address this where it was written.

And Cobra...you and I don't see BF the same at all. Sure, he's fun to banter back and forth with, but I would hardly attribute any of his posts on here as narcissistic.

GEL


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