Well I read this thread a few hours ago. And came back to read it again.

Cobra I have a question not real up on narcism but from what I know of it. It pertains to a person with a belief that life revolves around them. They have superiour over inflated notions of self worth. How do you come to the idea that this is blackfoots personality.

Though Blackfoot is more then slightly egotistical he does not project a image of being a superior self from my POV.
Yes he has a tendency to project the belief that the male gender is at a whole superior to the female gender that is not a projection of self.

From what I understand a narcissistic person tends to speak of themselves mostly. BF has been reluctant to speak about his self in the past.
From what I understand narcissistic people tend to crave compliments. Though BF engages in flirty banter he tends to down play any form of compliments else wise.
Would a narcissistic be able to point to there own faults and take responsibility for there mistakes openly. Or would they tend to point fingers and point out circumstances that misguided them. I have no clue on this point.

Your comment of how he tends to bow down when he percieves someone to have a greater knowledge then himself sounds as if it is a fault in your opinion and that really confuses me. To put your ego aside and open show respect for someone else who's opinion differs or knowledge exceeds your own is a awesome trait IMO.

You gained comfort and security in knowing you had control over someone else
I see egotism not control. What am I missing ?

back down from your arrogant attitudes and become humble.

Again I am not seeing the basis for this comment.

I am going to seek out that website to get a better understanding of what makes a person narcissistic. I must not have a very good understanding of this since I do not see what you do.

Well gotta wrap this up time to pick up my other kid
But what I see in BF.

I see a form of mild amusement. A person that plays on words and his intellegence to not only inspire others but to communicate with them. I see a person who uses there persona as a front to open lines of communication with others. But I also see a pretty sincere person behind it all. One who is still growing and learning and healing.