Im not going anywhere HD, I was being sarcastic about running away in fear. My work is going to kick into high gear soon though, I have been off since June 29, and my work is not 40/week.
LIL, if I hadnt taken the time to explain the phrases (defend myself?) that got you ladies riled up, a lot of laughs and insights would have been missed. I never get irritated here.
I know exactly how I come off, and its not going to stop. I am not trying to flesh out my whole personality in these boxes. Cobra is right about one thing, I am very calculating in a sense. I dont mind if my ID controls me, as long as I am aware of it, and it is in my best interest.
Im not even mad at Cobra, I am slightly amused but bored by his technique to call me out, and attempts to assert himself. If he really wanted to point out I may have narcisstic tendancies, there are many other ways to do it. I actually am enjoying the sparing that he is offering. Im disappointed that you thought this, or anything could make me 'take my marbles home'.
Ditto to cobra being articulate (I especially appreciated his use of bulletin points -lol- have to throw a jab in there) and adding some wise things to other threads........ hence my belief that he has a agenda, trying to crack my 'facade' as he put it.
You know, I like that he doesnt like my board persona, it means he has got some alpha male, superior tendancies himself.
I have said attraction isnt a choice, and that it is SELFISH. Funny how that could come off as narcisstic.............hmmmmm.....