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There is no way we would be seperated or divorcing if there were no OM.




If I had a dime for everytime I have read something like that on this site.
You know damned well Blackfoot that the OM is not the real issue. It's a smoke screen. She is obviously not ready to face your M head-on and I do not blame you for protecting yourself emotionally. You seem to be making great progress on "fixing" yourself and not letting her take that power away from you. We can all use some similar fixing around here
Still, your M (minus the OM) seems to have such strong potential. I can sense it in your posts. Granted, I have not heard her side of the story but from you have told, there seems to be really strong chemistry. Not just sexual. That is very hard to find in life.
I'm still pulling for a happy ending here. But you know us chicks, we love this sh*t
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2. I use the term ladies loosely around here, their potty mouths, and over the top sexual drives are shockingly immodest, and completely UNlady like.
3. With a few rare exceptions, their pokes are completely predictable, and CUTE .




Always the charmer I see.