What were YOUR love busters? What was missing in the R that contributed to her decision to look elsewhere?
Is it possible that these things were never fixed the first time and, hence, she never really re-committed to the R? And as soon as she caught wind of them, bam, she was out the door again.
Don't misunderstand that I am condoning what she is doing or has done. I think it's pathetic, actually.
But in order for YOU to move on and have happiness in the future, you will have to identify what went wrong so that you can fix things from your end and have no more repeats, kwim.
Did she ever tell you clearly what she wanted and needed from the R? How good of a job did you do in providing those things?
This is not the first R I've been in where I am the HD woman. So I believe I know a thing or two about attracting the same type of shtuff, time and again. Hate to see you go through this again. But in order to avoid it, you gotta do the work the first time around.
