Thanks for the thoughful response to my questions. I'm assuming you have no contact with your friend at this point. That must be twice as painful losing not only your wife but your buddy. Sucks. I keep telling myself that if the kids weren't involved I would go thru with the divorce. I may be talking out my ass, however. You do not have kids and I understand you would not want to have them with her considering the pain she has caused. In that sense, you are lucky. You are obviously a very attractive man and will certainly find a woman who will give you want you want in the future. Just like you have said to me, Blackfoot,....
