Great story, Footie. (I'm not as cute as HP, but I like the sound of "Footie" better. Kind of like those pajamas my DD4 wears in Winter).
No advice here. Sounds like you (and her) have been through the wringer. You may not be in a SSM, but I hope you keep on posting here. I had to look up two things in your post (triune brain and the James chapter three) and I like that intellectual stimulation.
