Still Yoyo-ing About #3

[kaydeekay]

Yoyo, what a weekend you had. I'm sure finding about OW looking at the place and having her parents there also was a major blow. I can't believe (well, yeah I can) that H had her do the "wife" part of seeing the house. What an a@@hole. What is the sitch between OW and H? Do you know if he is still seeing her?

I'm a little confused here...do you want to save your M or are you keeping H for yourself so OW will not have him? If it's the latter part I wouldn't think that would be very healthy for you. I can't see you being the bitter STBXW always seeking some sort of revenge with H. I know you still love your H but if he does not want to work on the M right now, maybe go back to the detaching. It appeared that H came around with positive steps when you were detaching.