Yoyo-H does sound like he wants to make things right. I agree with (I'm sorry I forgot ) when she said that if you were distant and cold in the marriage that you could open up a little to H and you just did and looks like you got a positive response. I too was distant and thought I was wonder woman who had to do everything and put H last. I've somewhat opened up to H about my feelings, but not in a nagging way (make sense?) I've seen a little response from him.
I know we are afraid to tell our H that we still love them for fear that it would make them feel guilty of what they've done, but I don't think it would hurt every now and then.
M:43 H:37 D14 (ours) D18 (mine) S22 (mine) S18 (his) S: 10/2004 Bomb: 2/15/05 In/out of home Living with OW #4 Talks of D for 2-1/2 years
) when she said that if you were distant and cold in the marriage that you could open up a little to H and you just did and looks like you got a positive response. I too was distant and thought I was wonder woman who had to do everything and put H last. I've somewhat opened up to H about my feelings, but not in a nagging way (make sense?) I've seen a little response from him.
