Kismet...Thank you. Am feeling slightly better, but not a whole lot....
I know I shouldn't, but I made the first contact. My mom called me up and said that a relative is also working in Country X and wants to have H's number, and she wasnt' sure if H will be happy about it. So, I texted H and asked if it was okay to give his contact number to the relative. H texted back and said that it was okay, and inquired where relative is working. I texted back and said that I didn't know. Later, H called me during my lunch time, and said that he and I would have to go to the bank together on Sunday morning to bank in some money. I said OK. No mention of where he will be staying etc. But did end with "sms me, if you need me to call." H called m about an hour later, and asked if his replacement credit card is here...and when I said no, started cursing the bank. So, basically, these two phone calls were more of "tasks to be done" type of calls, as we still joint financial accounts.
Oh well...we'll see what happens. You either hear me bit@h about things or rave about things on Monday...or maybe sooner than that...