Yoyo.. I am in the same dilemna... to call or not to call...

She suddenly went "dark" after admiting about OM and telling
me that things are not working with OM and she is thinking
about coming back. ( of course another reason is I overreacted to it - showed my eagerness, and gave her
feeling that I was rushing things!)

Now I just want to call and validate that she was right
about me rushing things, and i want to take it slow too,
but she didn't respond to my SMS of "I am worried" after
going dark for a day and then she didn't even answer calls
from her family member (callerid comes private) - so I
wonder if she will answer my call, if not if I Should
leave a voice mail validating her.

Advice? I am worried.. wake up at 4.30 everyday with some
crazy thoughts!

Why do we luv more when they are pulling away and we know
that they are playing mind games?