BB, KDK, KDU, Kismet - Thanks for checking up on me. Yes, I am trying to detach and not dwell too much on what H is saying. Yes, I do feel like he is trying to play games. As soon as he feels like I am slipping away, he will launch into the "lovey-dovey promising talk" and when he feels that I been reeled in, it's back to nothing.
After Monday's long talk on the phone, I hear nothing from H on Tuesday whole day. He did transfer the money on Tuesday AM. But no texts or phone call the whole day. I did the unthinkable!! I texted him FIRST. Told him that I've received the money blah blah blah. Later that night..did another unthinkable...called him. Talked to him about insurance for the boys blah blah blah. Our convo seems to gear towards "my life" over here, rather than moving to Country X. He seems to be in a hurry to go off. So, let him off and ended the call. SO, have resolved to be absolutely DARK for at least today (Wed) and tmrw. NO texts, NO calls from me. Have to adhere to this mini-goal.
he is "talking the talk", now he has to "walk the walk Will see if this will materialise....
Yes, BB - I think if H REALLY visits the school, it will be a good starting step that he is really taking action.
Also, I have to vent abit this morning....read an article "Shocking Trend: Why women prefer to be mistresses than wives". I was really agitated when I read the comments made by these women! Most of them were late twenties/early thirties, successful working women who wants well-to-do, successful, matured men. Most of these men are already married, but they DON'T CARE. One of them said "I don't think of his wife as a person with feelings". WTF! Another said "Oh..she made James sooo unhappy, that it's better that they break-up". Bl@@dy hell, if bl@@dy James is soooo unhappy, he should break-up with his wife first before he seeks another. Correct? Very infuriating!!! These women have no Morals, are shameful, selfish skanks!!!!!
Okay, enough venting...time to get back to work. Feel better now.. phew!
