Yoyo you know I love you and this is said with the utmost understanding to your sitch but WTF are you doing???? You were so much more in control a while back and that is why I am being hard on you now. Go back and read what you were like, read the advice you gave others on OW. You know better than this YoYo. I think it is time for you to re-read the book. You are not validating him, you are not acting as if, you have to act nice around him show him what he is missing. You are not meant to be difficult. Does this make sense YoYo I hate to see you like this as you are so much better than this, you really are starting to sound tired of all this, re-read the book I think it will set you on the path again. Look after yourself YoYo and I really hope you have taken what I have said the right way as I don't want to hurt you....KDU