Yo, YoYo, We're all there. The thought of the OP with the ones that were supposed to be with US for the rest of our lives, Believe me, I know how hard it is to stop the pics.
Maybe you should go dark for a while and see what happens. Set a time frame that you are comfortable with, 3 days, a week, two weeks? Then stick to it. I really don't think it can hurt.