Yo, YoYo,
We're all there. The thought of the OP with the ones that were supposed to be with US for the rest of our lives, Believe me, I know how hard it is to stop the pics.

Maybe you should go dark for a while and see what happens. Set a time frame that you are comfortable with, 3 days, a week, two weeks? Then stick to it.
I really don't think it can hurt.

Good luck and keep posting.

WAWFighter