See...another 'possible' success story. Keep with us though. I have had my W come back many times.....most for reasons other than that she figured out she loved me. Once was because OM moved out of state. Once was when she caught OM cheating. Wait...make that twice that she caught him cheating. My point is, the one time that she came home for me because she loved me....I could tell the difference. I didn't worry..I didn't lack trust...I could just feel her love for me and that worked. Just sharing my experience with you. NY has a good point but I hope this is it for you because we all support and hope the best happens to all of us here.