...some other team with a respectable defense is going to make you an offer you can't refuse...no matter how loyal you may be to the hometown team.
The longer this sitch goes on the more likely I'm going to insist that the no trade clause in my contract be removed. But first I have to remove that anti-chick coating.
Sorry for the hijack WAWF. What kind of GAL or mysterious things are you doing these days to keep W thinking?
Quote: What kind of GAL or mysterious things are you doing these days to keep W thinking?
I very seldom call W at all, let her call me. I don't always return her calls right away and make it a point to be somewhat vague when she asks me about my plans, etc.
She just emailed me that she can't go with us (me and the Ks) to the circus this weekend but will look into getting us (Just her and I) tickets to a concert next week. I emailed her back "We will miss you at the circus. Maybe your plans will change, call me if they do." My gut reaction is that Om and her have plans. (She previously suggested we all go Friday night.) As an aside, I didn't know it at the time, but Om’s child custody schedule coincides with how W set up ours, go figure.
Saw my C on Monday and she seems to think that the A is dying down due to the travel distance, schedules, etc. I wish I could know for sure.
Anyway, TG and BB, thanks for the input and please keep it coming.
...she seems to think that the A is dying down due to the travel distance, schedules, etc.
In my case time and distance had little affect on the A. Being apart might have kept it going. Kept them from getting tired of each other. It might be a way to gauge the staying power of the A. If something as trivial as travel distance or schedule problems causes trouble in the A then it's doomed to fail. If the A can withstand those nagging problems, then it could be a long time before it possibly fizzles out. Then again if there are no obstacles keeping them apart, they may o.d. on each other or the excitement might be gone thus causing the A to lose its spark.
In the end all A's are different animals so nobody knows what will cause it's death. We just have to steadily DB the best we can and be ready when the WA starts to reconsider. Keep it up. We're right beside you.
My C made that comment after I said that, “Hell, I wished they lived together. That way it would probably end sooner.” The fact is with gas prices being what they are, and school now in progress, it is probably difficult for them to get together as much. What I have realized though is, you may be right, my C may be right, or I may be right. Whatever, whatever happens in the A happens no matter what I think.
Interesting though, remember that I emailed her about the circus saying, “Maybe your plans will change…” She emailed me back, “Maybe they will, [girls name] is a flake so I don’t know what will happen.” Now, W never told me what her plans were, I assumed they were with Om. The girl she mentioned is a name I do not know, so…she is either lying to me about this girlfriend to draw attention away from Om, OR, she does not have plans with Om. Either way I think I am doing O.K. If she is still lying about her plans with him it means she still is concerned about my feelings which is good. If she is not lying, well then, all the better.
My C thinks I overanalyze the situations. Gee, I wonder what gave her that impression?
So W never called this weekend. I guess her plans didn’t change so I took the Ks to the circus w/o her and we had a blast.
She called today and said that she never got done what she was going to do this weekend. So what were you doing, honey? (I didn’t ask.) When did this woman become so adept at lying? It simply amazes me and I have to keep reminding myself that she is in fact an alien.
She is now also starting to back out of us going to the concert this Friday. Maybe the good time we had the last couple weeks is scaring her off. Maybe she was honest about her plans with Om and he is pressuring her not to see me. Maybe I have no clue as I am just going nuts thinking about it.
As an aside, anyone's cheating spouse end their affair lately? How did it go down? Someone said it earlier and I will repeat it. We could sure use some more success stories. JamesJohn, you out there?
I think you are right - I reckon she's confused because you guys have been having such a good time and she doesn't know what that means in terms of the decisions she has made.
Keep doing what you are doing WAWF. You are chipping the whole thing down piece by piece and I really believe you will get there.
One day at a time. Zero expectations. Count the babysteps.
Take it easy.
V
Never make someone a priority, who makes you an option.
