I'm so sorry she lied to you. Remember you told me the other day that the affair has to die down, die away and there is a period of ending and a period of mourning that goes with that. You don't know what happened there at his house. She could have been there to dump him. They might have had a fight and had an awful time and now she's wondering why in the world she didn't stay home and enjoy the company of her children.

Don't ASSume you know what's going on with her. You don't, you can't. Just count the baby steps - and there are so many.

Keep your cool, let it go, detach lovingly. You might just surprise yourself.

V

Never make someone a priority, who makes you an option.