Yeah - we are going to have to ask Dodger to find out what happens when this "breakthrough" happens and what his MFTs experience is in handling it successfully.

Fantastic though that you guys are all going out to dinner on a Saturday night. Great opportunity to really show her what she'll be missing if she does decide to go solo. There will be no Saturday night dinners with the family if you are D. Even if she has a fantasy about being friends after a D, she knows in her heart that it won't be possible to maintain that level of family intimacy.

DB your butt off - enjoy dinner. Take care


V

Never make someone a priority, who makes you an option.