Just wanted to jump in on your post and say I'm the same way. I can't be H's best friend, confidant, and his strength if we get a D. I will be the mother of our children and a co-parent. That's it. I think if he had really tried with me to repair our M and given it his all and it didn't work, then I could still be his friend. But not if it ends this way. Am I cynical?
WCB
God grant me the serenity,
to accept the things I cannot change,
To change the things I can,
And the wisdom to know the difference.
- Reinhold Niebuhr
