Hey Jabez...it was a good try. I did that back in 2000 when my W was EA with my son's batting coach. I went to him...and asked him for help in saving my M. He agreed and cut off contact with W. The sad thing is that as soon as he cut it off, my W called me and said she was having second thoughts and wanted to try it again. Anyway, enough about me. It was a good try. Don't try it again.
Time to get on the DB bandwagan and let the A play itself out.