My initial reaction to my W when I discovered the A 3 months ago was, "How could you be attracted to someone who would commit adultery with a happily married woman and actively work to destroy a family with small children??"
He told me that he was not proud of his actions, but he had feelings for her...so too bad I guess.
The sad truth is that not everyone reasons as you do.
When I was single, I used to work closely with a woman, who, I would've loved to be with, but she was married. Yet, something must've been going on with her, because there were times when she'd mutter explicit suggestive phrases, but I didn't take the bait. Would've loved too! It was killing me!
Well, OP aren't quite like that. But there's no use pointing it out to them because they justify it with heaps of moronic idiocy... "I'm not proud of what I did but I have feelings..." oh please, what a losing argument that is! (But then, what kind of reasoning would you expect from a loser?)
Hey, Mr. OM, I'm not proud of this, but I have feelings too! Yep, I've had feelings of coming over with a baseball bat and breaking your knee caps just so that when you fall down it'd be more convenient for me to get in a few whacks at your head and bust your skull wide open. Gee, ya think maybe I should act on my feelings too, huh?
