1) first & foremost, I agree with those that say that anyone who would fool around with a married person is not a real man or real woman
5) [the other person is] messed up, too. Remember, they made a choice to mess around with someone who was supposed to be off limits.
I think that because the OP chooses to get involved with a married person, that the OP is, by definition, a psychopath. I say that because what they're doing is this: they're thumbing their nose at society's view of marriage and saying instead that adultery is preferable over marriage. I was told, for example, that back when my WAW, before she became a WAW, back after her EA was exposed and she decided that she'd work on our relationship and earnestly did cut off the OM, that the OM went "berserk" and tried to contact her. Now, what does that show? A disrespect for her honorable and ethical intentions? A lack of regard for someone else's marriage? I think so.
