again thanks for giving your perspective could be a good thing that you're not fully able to remember all the confusing things which you felt & thought - means that you're now in a better state of mind & not so able to relate to those alien times - glad to have you back on earth
Quote: You're giving him what he thinks he wants and that's good for you. He may not see it now because all he can think about right now is OW, but he will see it later. It's reassuring that things are noted even if the aliens aren't actting like they care or notice the changes
I guess it's good that you let him go on good terms because it lets him know that you still love him. this is where the DBing comes in handy we should be happy & loving from a distance regardless of the WAS showing that the WAS notices the positve changes or reacts hatefully to us is what you seem to be saying correct?
I'm certainly no councilor, but maybe you should cut off all contact with him so he can feel what it would be like if you were to get a divorce. i'm finding the book when the one you love wants to leave to by don harvey to be helpful in the leting go - going dark process
althou due to my sitch being both physically & finacially dependant upon byron i'm more of a shade of dark grey than absolutely dark
but the book is great for explaining the whys as well as the what to do's which at times i've found myself wondering
& it's very reassuring to see that yes this is the way to go - & Zuki your words here help as well considering you've just come out of the tunnel
You know, take away his cake. Zilla and I read this in the last book we read: "How to survive after an affair". who's the author of this book? think i may invest in it at a later time when i've got some extra money & have the ability to add to my library
