Hi Anna, Wow, long post! Sorry. I read your post Friday night and waited until today to reply. I may not be able to give you my exact perspective because my perspective has changed drastically due to talking with Zilla and books we've been reading together, but I will do my best. You're giving him what he thinks he wants and that's good for you. He may not see it now because all he can think about right now is OW, but he will see it later. I guess it's good that you let him go on good terms because it lets him know that you still love him. I'm certainly no councilor, but maybe you should cut off all contact with him so he can feel what it would be like if you were to get a divorce. You know, take away his cake. Zilla and I read this in the last book we read: "How to survive after an affair". What do you think?
