Just curious, did Rottzilla tell you that your EA hurt her? Was she up front with that during the whole thing? If so, how did that make you feel? Was that helpful for you to know this?
I ask because my H and I have a good level of communication. The OW is not part of that. Only recently, did he come out and admit that he spent a lot of time with her and why he did. I'm working to get to a point where we can finally talk about this and I don't want to jump in too soon. My H knows that his "friendship" has hurt me greatly but I don't know if he knows how much or that if something like that were to ever happen again that I would leave him for good.
Right now, the topic is a closed door between us but I am hoping that we can open it again someday soon.
