No, I meant you and I argue. It's strange, isn't it, that after all the fights about petty little things that the discussion about divorce is the most calm? I think because it's so sobering.
It sounds like you have it all figured out as far as your motivations. I don't doubt you'll be fine. I just hate this, especially because your situation (minus the other person) sounds like mine in that the divorce isn't clear cut; there is still potential for a saved marriage if the one spouse would just smell the coffee.
I know what you mean by may be easier with someone else. In my case, the new woman won't have proved that she's liable to jump ship or have an internet EA.
Good luck Tessa. I worry for you.
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In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
